'I loved being the temptress but now I’m getting a taste of my own medicine' - Wednesday's problems answered

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Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, Today's main letter comes from a woman who didn't feel any guilt when she tempted her boyfriend away from his family. In her mind because his wife took him for granted, she bears the responsibility for the relationship breakdown. But now four years on she feels like his dirty little secret and he still hasn't told his family about her. My second letter comes from a man who is completely smitten with his girlfriend but he struggles with how rude and disruptive her children are.  Her previous relationship was an abusive one and the children had a terrible time. Still, he struggles to accept their behaviour. If you're struggling with a dilemma, get in touch with my trained counsellors. They respond within one working day.  Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE I loved being the temptress but now I'm getting a taste of my own medicine I love my partner but I hate spending time in her house CASE STUDY I'm worried my partner has a secret dark side Is my engaged colleague stringing me along? NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.