'My wife’s extreme fantasies alarm me' - Thursday's problems answered

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Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, Today's main letter comes from a man who feels completely demoralised after his wife asked him to try bondage and group sex. He is devastated because he always thought she was just as satisfied with their sex life as he was - now he worries that she has been left unsatisfied and worse still that he doesn't know her at all. A different reader writes in asking how she can encourage her adult son to be more respectful in her home. He doesn't work, doesn't lift a finger, but receives a generous allowance from his dad. She feels very isolated and asks how to improve her home life. For more mental health, dating and relationship advice email my team of counsellors.  It's completely free. Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE My wife's extreme fantasies alarm me I'm sick of my spoilt son treating my home like a hotel CASE STUDY I'm devastated after my husband walked out on me and our children My OnlyFans addiction is bleeding me dry NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.